Your plans for the wedding of a lifetime are coming together. You and your partner for life have decided that Hawaii is where you will tie the knot. You have made many decisions including who will be your photographer. You feel that photography is important because that is all you will have, besides your sweetie, from your Maui wedding after you are back home.
When I am on the phone with brides and grooms, months before their wedding day, often I hear, “We have never done this before and you are experienced with weddings on Maui. We would like you to lead the way.” Of course, that makes sense. The first time I leaped out of plane I wanted guidance. I wasn’t about to tell the professional how I wanted to do it!
Wedding photography is a bit different from sky diving, but in both cases everyone wants a successful result. The couple and photographer need to be in a comfort zone. Both you and us at
Hughes Photographics have the same goal, which is to create great images of your wedding day. Through discussion, understanding and trust can be established and we can arrive at the desired result.
You may have some photo ideas… ideas that you have been saving for your day. Prior to the wedding day, share those ideas with the photographer. On the other hand, asking a photographer to change their style and approach to mimic/copy a look that you desire, may not yield the best results. The photographer’s images probably had a big effect on you selecting them… let them do what they do best. But do point out images on your photographer’s website that appeal to you. And any that do not suit you.
What about a ‘shot list’? Through our discussions, I already have that ‘list’ in my mind. We already know that we are to photograph the kiss, bouquet, dad escorting the bride, etc., but what is helpful is information that may be a bit more of a personal matter. Example: the bride’s mom wears a bracelet which is a family heirloom which will be passed on to the bride in a private moment. Another example: The groom’s Air Force F-22 pals are doing a flyover to coincide with the kiss at ceremony’s end. We really experienced this! Not really, but the point is we need to know anything that might not be obvious upfront.
A big factor in making most beautiful photos is the lighting which means the time of day. Being out at the beach at noon is fun, if you’re sun bathing, but the light is less than desirable for flattering images. Eyes squint, harsh shadows creep in, people dressed up tend to overheat and perspire. Do you like the look of the images on our site? All were made within a hour or two of sunset.
‘But Scott, I’m not a model and don’t know what to do in front of the cameras!’ Even if you are a model, I suggest that you two relax and enjoy the moment. If you have some spare energy, let it go and play to the camera. If some guidance is needed, we will be there.
‘My brother/uncle/best friend has a really nice camera and he wants to follow us around and get the shots you miss.’ We have nice cameras too! And I do love analogies. What would be the response if you suggested a similar situation to another creative professional? Example: ‘My friend owns a paint brush and wants to help you paint our oil painting. Can you think of any reason that this is not a great idea?’ When you ask a professional to create, it’s probably best to not put obstacles in their path. Remember, you and the experienced professional have the same goal.
Putting all of this together… know your goal and the logistics of making it happen, communicate with your photographer and have a great time. You will look great and even greater as a relaxed and confident couple. Looking for great photography of your wedding?
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